Individual lives are the glue that holds civilizations together. 

When they thrive, it thrives. When they fail, it fails.

Deaths from anxiety, depression, and suicide, worldwide, are the highest in history.

Our civilization is falling apart because we, as individuals, no longer know how to do the three most important life skills we need to hold our own lives together.

Our relationships don’t work, our emotions are out of control, and the choices we are making are creating more problems than they solve.

Recent discoveries show we why we have serious problems.  

We know 95% of our problems come from the programming we got during the first 1000 days of our lives, beginning at conception.

We know every attempt to change that programming has failed to have any effect on the numbers of our species who are suffering.

We know each successive generation’s life skills are poorer, the quality of their lives is decreasing, and their IQs are lower.

Many people have given up, thinking that change is impossible, or we are too far gone.

That is not true, and it’s not too late!

What we need is a radically different approach. One that teaches us the skills we need to

solve our own problems,

manage our own lives,

have better relationships,

create fewer negative emotions,

make better choices and

be a better parent.

There are other recent discoveries that show we can re-train our brains and begin a new life of personal peace and contentment.

I do not expect you to accept this without proof so there is a free mini-course at the bottom of the page with supporting evidence.

It will also introduce you to Sophy, the first Human Being. As you get to know her, you will learn four vitally important things about yourself.

How your brain was programmed in your first 1000 days

How that programming becomes your subconscious

How your subconscious runs your life

How you can reprogram it with much better skills

A piece of evidence that will help you decide “change” is possible is this:

Your brains already know how to do the skills you want to do!

There are three vitally important skills, however, that our brains were not programmed to do correctly, interpersonal relationships, emotions, and making choices.

Think about that for a minute. In most people’s lives, those three things account for nearly all their serious problems and unhappiness.

Once again.

When did we learn our most important life skills?

In our first 1000 days.

Was our subconscious programmed to do them correctly?


Can we re-train our subconscious to do them better?


What’s the evidence supporting that?

 All the other successful skills we already have, like language & driving.

We learned all our successful skills the same way, and those techniques can be used to re-train our subconscious.

And, since our brains already know the skills, it is a lot easier than anyone expects it to be to update the skills in the three areas of our lives that cause us the most problems.

Learning to consciously use skills our subconscious uses thousands of times a day is not difficult, but it will take some studying and practice.

New discoveries will continue to add pieces to the puzzle of what is the ultimate potential of being human, but for now, I am certain the lessons presented in the full course can teach you how to retrain your subconscious with the skills to have more loving and nurturing relationships, think in ways that create fewer negative emotions, and consistently make better choices.


The Introductory Mini-Course

Transformation: A Different Approach

The Full Course

Transformation: The Steps on the Path

© 2018 Douglas McKee